Wednesday, November 6, 2013

My appointment and infusion went fine today.  Things have been a little crazy with our family schedule though!  We just got back on Monday night from Washington.  My husband's sister got married!  The wedding was very nice and it was good to see family that we hadn't seen in a while.  And it was good to meet our new brother-in-law finally!  The hard part about the wedding was seeing my father-in-law.  He is not doing well.  He has not wanted his health info shared until now so I haven't mentioned it in my blog other than to say that a close family member was going through some struggles with cancer.  My father-in-law was diagnosed with renal cell carcinoma about a year ago.  Right before Thanksgiving he had one of his kidneys removed, but it had already spread to his spine and lungs.  After that they have been trying different chemo drugs on him to see if they can stop or at least slow the growth of the cancer.  It has definitely been a roller coaster seeing how different drugs have affected him, both physically and mentally.  This weekend he was in quite a bit of pain and was definitely having a hard time getting around.  He has lost a lot of weight and doesn't have much appetite.  He slept most of the time we were there and quite frankly the events with the wedding really wore him out.  He was able to walk his daughter down the aisle though and it was a sweet experience for all who participated.  After we left town though they went in for some lab work and doctors appointments and found out that the doctor believes that his liver and remaining kidney are both failing.  There are some things they can try to maybe prolong his life, but at this point they are giving him 4-6 weeks to live.